Just a few pointers to get you started in the right direction.. You are here to meet others, don't blow it with a lame profile! Single guys - This is doubly important for you!
1. Profile pics are so important! Pick at least 1 pic and upload it as your profile pic. Most people prefer those that show your very sexy body, whether clothed, semi-clothed or nude. Standing up or posing very sexy on a bed or couch is best, not sitting in front of your computer! Most people will not even take a second look if you don't make the effort to put up a profile pic. You say - 'I don't want to be recognized' - that's just an excuse unless you have some big birthmark or tattoo - a body shot sans head is not identifiable! Having no picture makes most people think you have something to hide!
2. Don't necessarily need to see the 'goods' up front unless you have something very exceptional to share - but honestly there are lots of those here too.
3. Here's the biggie: Picture needs to be recent!!! If it was a pic of you 20 years ago or 50 pounds ago - Anyone you meet will eventually find out and not be pleased.
4. Take a little time with your profile - make yours stand out, represent your intentions - what do you want from this site? Spell check and have good grammar (want to think about your sexy words, not how you don't know the difference between your and you're).
5. Keep it light while staying sexy. Make people smile and you may get their attention. Make them laugh and you may keep their attention. Transition smoothly to hot, sexy talk and they will want to return it.
6. Completely read profiles and Know your limits. There are all kinds of people on here with all kinds of preferences - pay attention. Do not pursue a someone who prefers a 20 year old bbw - it's pointless if you're not what they are looking for. If you fit their requests - give them a shout, but if not, don't waste their time or yours. Find someone who you are a good fit for. They're out there - really (unless you're looking for some sweet innocent chick - remember where you're at!!)
7. If the profile says "No Single Males", "No Single Guys", "Single Males _ We will contact you if interested", "Couples Only" or anything else that would leave you to believe that a single mail isn't going have much of a chance, then please think before you send that email as a single guy.